Monday 24 October 2011

women are crazy- part two

...But women weren’t always this way. They say black women go to sleep with clenched fist. Its not because we are bad people its that we have seen our grandmothers and mothers fight battles every day of their lives alone without any help from the men. They have fought oppression, illiteracy, poverty etc with their fists when most of our men are no where to be seen. When they go to sleep they know the next day they are going to have to wake up and fight to survive and make ends meet for their kids.

I watched the Wangari Maathai documentary and saw how women stripped to protest the unfair inprisoning of their sons and they eventually were freed. Talk about unique weapons! (I know of a mama mboga in nakuru who has a son who is a lawyer and she did things to put him through college. Through sweat blood and tears she made it. She told me how one day her husband left home for work and he never came back. He never even carried his clothes. She looked in every mortuary and filed a poice report and he was later found to have moved in with another woman. She told me how she begged and pleaded with him to come home and he refused)

Over 70% of our households are being headed and run by women so excuse us for being hard...its the only way to step up and take over where our fathers and brothers have failed. Women are now quickly infecting the younger generation of women who grow up having given up on finding good men. You just date anything that gives you attention..after all they are all the same.

Men are now guilty by gender, Not only do we date bad men we are now ruining the good ones.My paranoia has driven many men insane. Call it what you want but am not going to get caught off guard. Some dude once lied about where he works to impress me...now I want to see business cards, meet colleagues, impromptu visits to your office. Interviewing of your B.F.F. its so easy to make the ninjas squeal.hahaha Yeah I go through pockets, I vet your female friends and your phone is subjected to scrutiny every month. I will be damned if another chiq thinks she gon come here and snatch you without the fight of her life. I don’t even play hard-to-get any more. I play show-me-how-your-not-going-to-hurt-me-like-the-last-one-did. What are you going to do different. To say am impatient with men is an understatement. If you dare renege on your promise I will make sure that you don’t forget it. A simple mistake like telling me “ongea haraka sina credo” will earn you an arsenal of abuses (no disrespect arsenal fans, it’s a word I made up.lol).

You all know what slavery did to the black man and he is yet to recovered from it after hundreds of years... You can do the math on how long its going to take for women to recover from what the men have done/not done for them.

Theres a reason why the devil gave eve the fruit. Women are very influential, sorry men its women who run the word. Beyonce wasn’t lying, and it wast the Illuminati talking either.lol.

In my village they are now using women to rob houses. A lady knocks on your door to ask for something and when you open BAM your lying on the floor fighting for dear life. A pal of mine stopped to help a lady with a flat tire, lets just say that's the last time he saw his car.

But all is not lost men there's a way you can fix it. Start stepping up to the plate. Respect your mother, wife sister and any women around you because that’s the only way the cycle of abuse will be broken.

I always say movies are prophecies. They not only show where society is at but where its going. The series 24 featured a black president long before Obama became president. Now I would recommend movies men need to watch to show them how wrong things could go if they continue to disrespect/mistreat women.Be careful the stuff you say to a woman in anger they don't forget. Some dude kicked me in class four and i never forgot. Met him on fb recently and reminded him, funny enough he couldn't remember(how convenient). The thing about women is that they are constantly changing and growing. That woman your are mistreating will one day come to her senses and it will be game over for you. Anyhoo watch this:-

1. Derailed


2. Chicago


3. Wheels on a butterfly


4. Femme fatale Tv series


5. Awake


6. Unfaithful


To women you all just need to get back to the middle. I could explain further but the song with the title explains it so well. The lyrics are below

Back to the middle by India Arie

She is, twenty five, spent over half of her life
So afraid to speak her mind, it's such a shame
'Cause what a brilliant mind she has
Chorus
And now she's been introduced to confidence
She doesn't see, that she is bordering on arrogance
When will she learn, to come back to the middle

He is, a young black man, grew up without his father
And now it falls into his hands, to protect his mother
'Cause if he doesn't, well then who will, his older brother lives in fear
Of everything, especially, trying to fill his father's shoes

Chorus
Respectively, they go to extremes, of masculine and feminine
Chasing dreams, but they keep on falling
'Cause they don't know no balance
When will they learn, to come back to the middle

Bridge
You must take the good with the bad, and you might hit the wall
Sometimes you'll fly and sometimes you'll fall
There isn't any way, to avoid the pain
But it's getting burned, that's how you will learn
To come back to the middle

Instrumental Break

Chorus

Needing to protect your self now that is just a part of life
If you let your fears keep you from flying, you will never reach your height
To get to the top you must come back to the middle
When will we learn, to come back to the middle
Come back to the middle, Come back to the middle
Don't make no mind about falling down
'Cause it's when you're in that valley
You can see both sides more clearly
To come back to the middle

Instrumental Break

Chorus

Needing to protect your self now that is just a part of life
If you let your fears keep you from flying, you will never reach your height
To get to the top you must come back to the middle
When will we learn, to come back to the middle
Come back to the middle, Come back to the middle
Don't make no mind about falling down
'Cause it's when you're in that valley
You can see both sides more clearly
Come back to the middle

lyrics from easylyrics.org



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